subject: Catching A Cheating Spouse: Here Is How You Catch A Cheating Spouse Within Minutes! [print this page] The surest sign of a cheating husband is a lipstick mark on their collar. Not all cheating husbands though carry a proof of their infidelity so obviously. Besides, if you suspect your wife cheating on you, you would not even look for such a thing. It may even be months before you start suspecting your partner of cheating on you. So here is a list of things/actions to watch out for catching a cheating spouse:
It all starts with an indefinable feeling somewhere in your mind. If your spouse is cheating on you, rely on your instinct if it tells you so. It does not mean you start accusing them the moment they walk in from work or a friends place. However, you must look for signs which can betray their guilty secrets in time. Small things like returning late from work or canceling plans with you to accommodate other friends or colleagues are small indications. You must verify each and every sign that is presented to be sure of the best way to tackle your problem.
Whenever you doubt your partners excuses, keep asking them again and again. Always remember what was told the first time you asked, if that poses to be a problem, keep a journal. Remember any new persons name that comes up in their conversation, ask them how they met or how they know each other. If your spouse has been lying to you, they are bound to slip up when repeating the details. Lies are difficult to keep a tab on. Let time pass and casually revisit events after some time has lapsed, you are sure to come across some inconsistency somewhere.
Catching a cheating spouse is easier if you can get your hands on their mobile bills or even the mobile phone itself. Write down the frequently called numbers; observe the times these calls have been made. You can then search these numbers in the mobile phone to check whom these numbers or number belong to? Calling up the number or numbers from a public phone can be done with an excuse to ask for the persons details.
More tangible evidence may be available in the personal belongings of your spouse. Search through pockets and wallets or handbags; look through personal drawers. You might chance upon some bill for dinner paid on their personal credit card. Look through your journal and check for the excuse given to you. If they were supposed to be in an urgent meeting and instead youve found a dinner receipt- you know your spouse has been cheating on you. You might even find bills from some gift shops- gifts which at least you never received.
Once you have found out your spouse has been unfaithful, you must urgently decide how to deal with your situation. Catching a cheating spouse, although easy, can be a hurtful experience. However, before you decide to end your marriage, you might want to consider giving your spouse another chance.
