subject: Save Your Marriage During a "First Month Married Crisis" Situation! [print this page] Save Your Marriage During a "First Month Married Crisis" Situation!
Wait a second....it hasn't even been a month and already we're having problems? Many people are experiencing a "save your marriage during their first month back from the honeymoon" crisis. You better believe it.
I mean you just married your soul mate, the wedding went perfectly you both had a great time on the honeymoon and the first month back there are serious issues developing. This is very common for newlyweds...that whole adjusting to the married life.
When you first get married there are many challenges you have to confront such as dealing with housing, living with another person, actually spending the rest of your life with another person, and trying to set up a financial situation in which you both can be comfortable.
I remember when my husband didn't want to give up the renowned "Bachelor Pad." This was when we were both adjusting to the home we'd be permanently living in. Well to make sure we did we had to give up the places we both were living in before we started living together.
This is just an example, but there are a ton of things you have to acclimate to when you first start living together as newlyweds. You have to learn to accept and understand the aspects of your spouse that may annoy you. Maybe he walks around with his shirt off all the time or she likes to wear a shower cap to bed, you gotta accept your partner for who they are.
You can talk about it, but just do so in a manner that isn't showing how much it annoys you but in a way that shows you can accept it if they choose to continue doing it. You are living with this person everyday, coming home to them, and showing them that you love them for better or worse.
Maybe the fact that you're trying to save your marriage during the first month is more serious than the examples I'm giving right now are, but if they are things like the small issues I went over just learn acceptance.
If your situation is a bit more serious than that in the first month, than just make sure you have these three things down....communication, spontaneity, and passion. As newlyweds, there should always be communication going on between you two.
You should always be able to communicate with your partner, and in the spontaneity department, just be exciting and surprise your partner every now and then by doing something sweet and nice. As far as passion goes, as newlyweds you should always be intimate.
Show intimacy physically and emotionally through communication. This is how to save your marriage during a first month marriage crisis.
