subject: Save Your Marriage Alone - Does It Feel Like You're the Only Trying? Here's How to Fix That! [print this page] Save Your Marriage Alone - Does It Feel Like You're the Only Trying? Here's How to Fix That!
When you're trying to save your marriage alone, this means that your spouse is not willing to work with you in fixing the issues in your marriage. Marriage takes effort and a lifetime of commitment to work.
No marriage is perfect, and with that in mind its no wonder why so many people are looking for ways to fix the issues in their marriage.
Marriages today are ending because of infidelity, neglect, or loss of passion to one another. If you're trying to learn how to save your marriage alone then you will have to be the one who takes the initiative. You're gonna have to get the wheels toward patching things up in motion.
Your partner may still be interested in saving the marriage, but may not know exactly how to take the first step. So you'll have to do it. The first thing you should do to save your marriage alone is to first show your spouse that you are interested in saving it.
You and your partner should sit down and begin talking about the issues in the marriage that are causing it to sink. Communication. Communication is the most fundamental building block in a marriage.
In a marriage that is having problems, you tend to see that the communication between the two people has left the building.
Talk and identify in a calm manner the problems you both feel are in the marriage. After you both can identify and understand the problems, the next step you should take is to have both you and your spouse make the necessary compromises and commitments to fix your problems.
By compromises I mean that you should both agree that there is a problem, and that you both have to do something about it to fix that problem. By commitment I mean that you both have to be dedicated to fixing that problem through the compromise you made.
That compromise is a decision you both made toward fixing that problem together. Now this is the part where things will really show that you both are interested in your marriage.This is the part about spontaneity. You show your spouse you really care by doing things they would have never expected you to do.
You could surprise your spouse with tickets to go see a movie together, or set a day where the both of you enjoy something together. You're basically doing things to surprise your spouse and make each day different than the one before.
This is how you really save a marriage.You show and maintain that interest in each other. You can save your marriage alone.
