subject: Stop Your Divorce and Save Your Marriage - Fix Your Relationship If Something Is Weighing It Down! [print this page] Stop Your Divorce and Save Your Marriage - Fix Your Relationship If Something Is Weighing It Down!
Learning how to stop your divorce and save your marriage has become a widespread course nowadays. I do hate to do this for the hopeful romantics reading this, but statistics show that nearly fifty percent of all marriages today will end up in divorce.
Its always fun when you first get married to your spouse. Everything's great, and you have so much to learn about each other. You never for one second start to think that you may be filing for divorce with this person later on. You may feel like you've just been through the calm before the storm.
With this in mind, you should know that it's not impossible to stop your divorce and save your marriage. In fact, most couples who saved their marriage say that they make their relationship stronger than it was before the divorce scare.
As we all know, a marriage is about sharing your entire life with someone. For better or worse, you dedicate everything you have to give physically and emotionally to that person. So, lets begin with the most important methods you should be doing to stopping whatever rough patch you are going through with your partner.
Communication. Communication is the most fundamental building block in any relationship, especially a marriage. A marriage without communication is like being stuck in a prison cell with someone you don't know. You're simply stuck together with nothing to talk about, not that we'd want to make friends with someone in prison.
You get my point. To start fixing the problems you're having with your partner, you have start talking about those problems. You have start identifying the problems you both feel are anchoring down your marriage so that you both can make your compromises and commitments to fix those problems.
You must talk to each other. Sometimes in a marriage that is heading toward divorce, both partners have lost so much passion for either that neither of them wants to talk. The only thing you're both ready to do is sign divorce papers. No communication is going on.
Try to sit down together and discuss, in a calm manner, what both of you feel are the problems in your marriage. If you both are able to make the necessary changes to fix things, then you can move on to the things to spice up your relationship and get it from off the ground.
By that I mean showing some spontaneity. You could do things that completely surprise your partner. Things that you would have never done before you two patch things up, or things your partner never thought you'd do.
Do your best to make everyday different from the last. Alot of marriages end because one partner simply say, "it got boring!!" In a marriage, you're supposed be happy and have fun together. Realize this and you have done or you are doing all you need to stop your divorce and save your marriage.
