subject: Seduction Secrets - Tempting A Woman [print this page] Most guys, when they try and attempt to seduce a woman, they move full force like a bull in a china closet. And low and behold, they hardly ever end up getting the girl. Yet, this is the same routine that men will use over and over and never really get the reasons why they are not more successful seducing a woman. And then there are the men that just never try anything at all.
The never try to tempt a woman, as they either lack the confidence to do so, or they just don't think it suits them for one reason or another.
How can you go about tempting a woman?
How can you successfully seduce a woman without coming off like a jerk or a fool?
First of all, your first realization must be that the full on approach hardly ever works. Women tend to be naturally skittish around a man that approaches and tries too hard. This is not just a natural turn off for a woman, but also a good indication that the guy might be a flake or something. So, you really don't want to waste your time with this approach.
Next, you have to be able to work UP to the seduction. It has to happen in a smooth upward pattern. So, you want to start off slowly with basic flirting and conversation. From there, you want to be able to build her to a point where she is comfortable with you being close with her, and it does not come across as awkward, weird, or even pushy.
Then you have to apply a little finesse and turn the heat on. By doing this, you are not just coming out like a guy that is trying to get laid by a woman. You are generating real sexual attraction with her and this is what will open the doors for other possibilities.
