subject: How To Attract Women And Not Have To Sweat The Details [print this page] One of the things that I have noticed time and time again is that a lot of guys, they get way too caught up in the details when it comes to figuring out how to attract women. If you want to know how to attract women, experience is one of the best teachers hands down and the only way you are going to get that experience is if you put yourself out there and take some chances.
It's too easy to think that you still haven't really gotten "it" and want to discover more and more tips and tricks to attract women, but in the end, you aren't going to be successful with women without taking a chance now and again.
Besides, the more that you worry about the details, the more likely it is you are going to work up your nerves or start to second guess yourself and that is NOT going to work to attract women. Not at all.
So, what should you do if you really want to attract women?
Here's a few tips to help you figure this out:
1. When you approach a woman, clear your mind.
Don't let yourself start thinking about the killer lines you are going to drop on her or whether or not she is going to reject you. Go with the flow and clear your mind of all of these negative thoughts. You want to make it appear that you are a natural with women and it's going to look anything but natural if your mind is all caught up in the what ifs.
2. Throw away the canned approach.
The canned approach is a pre thought out routine that a lot of guys will try and use on a woman. Sometimes it works and sometimes it doesn't. The thing is, it's painfully embarrassing when you spot a guy using one of these approaches and he messes it up. It's obvious to everyone and you lose instant attraction with a woman.
3. Flirt with her and don't stop till she wants more.
When you flirt with a woman, you want to leave her wanting more of you. You don't want to over do it. And you also don't want to under do it. Flirting with a woman increases her attraction and allows you to ease into things more smoothly. It gives you the opportunity to create that SPARK of attraction and from there, it's up to you to run with it.
