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You all of a sudden wake up one morning only to discover you still have deep feelings for your ex. This is always understandable when you have been with someone for a long period or you had very deep feelings for him or her. You have discovered that you want your ex back.
Where do I start?
More times to none people cannot even fathom where to start when wanting their ex back. You will more times to none seek advice from other people but beware of seeking advice from friends or family members. You want advice from someone who is not biased and someone who is looking at the situation from the outside as compared to the inside.
The grieving process
Before you begin on your journey of getting your ex back, ensure that you are over the grieving process. More times to none, at the end of failed relationships, there is a period of hurt involved as well as missing your ex. This process alone can become very much consuming.
The reason people feel consumed during this process is that you are sad. You are sad about the broken dreams you once had together as well as the hopes you and your ex shared. Make sure you have recovered from the grieving process before embarking upon getting your ex back.
What are the mistakes I made?
After the grieving process has been overcome, be aware of the mistakes, which you have made during that time while finding ways to correct them. You have to figure out what mistakes you performed to instigate the failed relationship. Admit your faults first to yourself before admitting them to your ex upon trying to get your ex back.
Do not play the "Blame Game"
Do not place all the blame on your ex. You must understand that it takes two people to screw up a relationship. You will have plenty of time while reconciling if your ex chooses to do so to sort everything out, you must now focus on getting your ex back as compared to blaming them for everything, which went wrong within the relationship.
If you are truly sincere about wanting your ex back then you have to outline what is most important in getting your ex back and how to achieve this. Upon getting your ex, back and both of you have worked on the problems, which existed within the previous relationship; you can then begin focusing on your future, which both of you originally wanted in the first place.
