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Are you suffering in an imbalanced relationship where you are the one who is willing to be exposed? Do you want to get him to feel more serious about you so the two of you can see how far you can go? Scores of ladies don't know how to make a guy commit. Because of that, they may tend to want to settle for relationships where they are faithful, but the guy is not. You must keep reading to learn how be the woman he really wants to commit to.
The first thing that you will need to tell yourself is that it's really not that difficult to make a man commit to you. So, from this moment on, you should stop struggling so hard. Consider this: Do you really need to appear as a co-dependent person who is clinging frantically to the arm of a person who isn't even certain that he wants to be with her?
There is not a thing attractive about that mental picture and nothing that will make him distance himself more than imagining you like that. So, the great news is that you can start to calm down and enjoy yourself more AND get him to commit at the same time. This is how to do it...
First, be sure to remind yourself that you have a meaningful life that goes beyond him and then get busy living it. You don't have to always be there whenever he calls you up out of the blue to go on a date. Check out a movie with your friends over the weekend, go to the gym after work, or just do anything else you happen to enjoy doing. You don't need to be inspired to make room for him and squander your free time when he isn't even willing commit to you.
However, use the time that you do spend with him very usefully. When you are out with him, give him all of your attention. Don't drool all over and act desperate, but do make him feel like that he is the only person in the world whenever you are on a date with him. Listen to him when he is talking and ask him plenty of questions about himself. He will totally bask in the attention, and also, he will see that you are really enchanted by him.
Follow these uncomplicated methods if you want to make a guy commit to you. However, in the case that you do all of those things and he still is not willing to agree to be with only you, just say goodbye to him and keep looking. There are a lot of other men you could meet who would be able to treat you better.
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This article is contributed by Tina Jones. Tina is part of the Unforgettable Woman Publishing Team. She works together with founder Alexandra Fox and writes dating/relationship articles for women who want to understand male psychology, how to attract men, and find true love. You can find more about Unforgettable Woman Publishing by visiting their website.