subject: How To Get Over A Pet Death Or Pet Loss [print this page] A great many people, especially the elderly, enjoy having a pet as a companion. They cherish them, pamper them, and sometimes treat them better than they do a family member. In return, a pet, whether it be a dog, a cat, or even a hamster, can provide the owner with a sense of comfort and someone to talk to that is not going to question them.
The problem is that most pets will not outlive their masters. Losing a pet can be devastating to some people. The feelings a pet owner faces are similar to feelings you experience when losing a family member. You may experience sadness, denial, anger, guilt, and depression.
But what can you do to get passed the feelings and move on with your life? Here are some ideas.
First, do not deny the feelings. There are very real to you and it does not help to keep them bottled up inside. If you feel like crying, then cry. That is nothing to be ashamed of. You have just lost a best friend.
Second, do not let others trivialize your feelings. Sometimes it is best to be by yourself for a while to give yourself time to let your feelings out.
On the other hand, often you may feel the need to express your feelings to someone who understands. It is quite likely that you know someone who has already lost a pet and would understand. Seek them out and ask if they will meet with you.
Perhaps there is a support group available in your area. Call your local animal shelter or Humane Society and ask if they know of one.
Try writing a journal of some of the moments that you and your pet have shared. What were some of the sillier things they might have done? What were its funniest or most unique habits? These memories will often bring a smile to your face and help you overcome the sadness.
Finally, prepare a place of remembrance. It may not always be possible to bury your pet in your yard, but you can create a memorial by burying some of your pet's belongings, such as a food dish, collar, or some of its favorite toys and placing a small marker at the site. Much like a funeral, this is often one of the best ways to bring closure.
Also, do not be in a big hurry to replace your pet. Give yourself some time to grieve. Give yourself a few weeks before deciding to get another pet.
