subject: Win Your Ex Back After a Bad Breakup! [print this page] Win Your Ex Back After a Bad Breakup! Win Your Ex Back After a Bad Breakup!
A nasty or bad break up can be despairing, and if your ex is not even willing to listen to you, you get the feeling that life has been unfair to you. But then you should also accept the fact that your ex should have been tolerant enough to hear your side of the story. Do not be bogged down by the break-up and muster up the courage that you will show that you were not wrong and possibly win your ex back even after a bad break up.
Let's suppose that your ex had a feeling that you were cheating behind his or her back. Though you were not, your ex has made it clear that he or she has nothing to do with you. Your ex is not willing to hear you out and has been misled by his chain of negative thoughts. If you are clear that your ex should know about what the real story was and if you want to win your ex back no matter how bad the breakup is, you have got to make him understand that he or she was wrong.
Pacify your ex by writing an email or a letter about what really happens and the reasons for acting the way you did. If you were to tell him or her in person, your ex in a sense of fury may retaliate. But a letter will pacify him or her and your ex will have no choice but to read it. You may also state in the letter that you are sorry for any misunderstanding or wrong that you have done. A well-written letter will calm your ex and make him or her reach out to you.
Now for a few weeks forget about your ex and get your personal life back in order. Enjoy what you like to do, go out with friend, start partying, do a personality makeover and indulge yourself in enjoying life. If you change your personality and looks for the better, you will attract the attention of your ex again. Your new found personality will be an added incentive for your ex to pursue you again.
Try to win over a family member of your ex who is close to you. In the absence of your ex, tell him or her about how you ex got it wrong and judged you incorrectly for things that never happened. The family member of your ex will be supportive of you and will be able to convey your side of the story to your separated lover. Your ex will soon discover what he has been missing on and will woo you again. The above are some of the best steps that can help you win your ex back even after a bad breakup.
