subject: Five Steps To Getting Your Ex To Pay Attention To You Again! [print this page] This is itThis is it. The relationship really is over. He or she won't even talk to you. He's even stopped talking to your mutual friends. Chin up, you can get him or her back! You can get your ex to pay attention to you again! Follow these five steps:
1. TELL HER (OR HIM) ABOUT IT
Go ahead. Reveal your true feelings to your ex. Apologize. Let them know that you are thinking of him or her throughout this difficult time. And then, wait. Yes, it will be difficult. Think about those things you could have done differently, and do them! Your ex will likely appreciate the time and effort you take to sincerely apologize and the work you do in getting your ex back!
2. GET A MAKE-OVER
Hit the gym. Take a walk. Try the latest cosmetic tips. Treat yourself to a spa. People will take notice of the new you. And so will your ex! You will love the new you, and guess what? So will your ex!
3. SPREAD THE WORD
Talk flatteringly about your ex! Try not to be bitter or spiteful in your conversations. You want your ex to know that you still think highly of him or her. Your ex may be surprised to hear all the good things about him or herself and come searching for the source, you!
4. REMEMBER THOSE SPECIAL DAYS
Does your ex have a birthday coming up? Start thinking now of a special gift that will uniquely gift your ex and remind him or her of how much you care! Birthday, not around the corner? Surprise him or her at another holiday. Valentine's Day. New Year's. Christmas, of course! No major holiday? Try an 'un birthday' gift or simply 'thinking of you!
5. DO THE VANISHING ACT
Now, it is time for you to disappear. Find other interests. Allow you and your ex time and space to decide how to proceed. Your ex will notice and probably come looking for you!
The last step is likely the most difficult and yet the most productive. Your ex will appreciate the time and effort you put into repairing the relationship. Along with the fact, that you have the grace to step aside and allow time to do the work!
It is still quite possible to get your ex back regardless of whether they eloped with someone else or not. Of course, you have to know how to do it effectively.
