subject: After The Affair - Learning To Survive Infidelity [print this page] After The Affair - Learning To Survive Infidelity
After the affair, the event that devastated your whole being, your mind, your life and your spirit. How do you heal your marital unit and get it back to a point where you may once again feel comfortable? Maybe even rebuild your marriage to a point better than it was before, if that is at all possible.
Is it possible? The answer being 'Yes, it is!' However, it takes hard work, dedication and a lot of will power.
I know that you have been or are still going through a devastatingly hard, uncomfortable time right now, but I hope that what I am about to say can help you to find the perspective you need to rebuild your marriage.
After The Affair - Your Whole Life Is Delicate
Your whole life is delicate after the affair and you will find that there is a need to be extra sensitive and way more patient than ever before. Understand that any marriage can be put back together if both parties, the cheater and the cheated are wanting. But it actually only takes one of the aforementioned parties to initiate the rebuild.
Surviving the aftermath of an affair is more about identifying and fixing the problems that caused the straying and betrayal of your wedding vows so as to eliminate any possibilities of it happening again.
"Surviving Your Affair Is About being laser focused on the problems that caused it!"
There Are Common Reasons Why Affairs Happen
Starting with MEN - Men are (more often than not) likely to be attracted to any woman that admires them.
They crave it day in and day out and get glitter in their eyes whenever admiration is present. He wants his woman to make him feel like he is her knight in shining armor. But as time goes on, wives often STOP admiring their husbands and the husband then jumps on any woman that shows admiration of him.
Women, on the other hand, much prefer the feeling of being appreciated by their husbands. It is good for their self esteem and it makes them feel worthy and wanted and needed. That is probably why the majority of all nurses in the world are women, it's a very appreciated occupation.
