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So you conquered the nerves and set up a first date. Hmmm, Yes. First date conversations. Sticky patch that. Reflection, even for a relatively short time, brings on a compulsive desire to run away and hide. Well, stop freaking, help's at hand. Read these 5 tips for guidance on how to have a successful evening and make a second date a dead cert - if you want it!
1) Who Is She Really?
So, looks-wise she's incomparable - but beyond that? You certainly don't want to be lumbered with someone who cramps your style. So you need to explore what she's into, what floats her boat. And what sinks it...think about it and prepare some questions you want
to ask so you can give her a score on this cardinal issue. You WILL get used to her stunning looks, but not her peevish objections to another day watching Ultimate X (-insert your favorite pastime).
2) Birds of a Feather
Ask and find out about her buddies. First off, she will absolutely grasp at the opportunity to extol the virtues (or otherwise) of her closest and best, thus removing any pressure on you to be the continuous and quintessential conversationalist .Secondly, you will learn so so much from this expo that your mind will be reeling - either from utter revulsion and relief that you can dump the selfish dog-female before it gets rad, or extreme delirium that she's so together, so loyal, so appreciative and yet discerning regarding who and what she chooses to be associated with. Yeah!
3) What about her family?
Asking about siblings suggests that you're a caring person, not just interested in her bodily attributes - and a bonus is that her response should alert you to any potentially over-protective and physically threatening family members who subscribe to Cosa Nostra
methods of making you see things their way.
4) Ramble and Roam stuff
Where's she been to? or wanting to go to? Open sesame - you may be presented with a
golden opportunity to be the illuminated dude on a horse who takes her to her Shangri-La. But even more, she'll reveal insights about her cultural background and eagerness to explore beyond those limitations that are pure alchemy, brother. From mundane everyday dullness to nuggets of shining gold for the astute observer...
5) So what's her preference?
Alcohol, drugs, religion - what does she get off on? If she's addicted to anything, you need to know now! It may not be the easiest topic to lead into, depending on your own preferences or prejudices, but it's essential. Could you - do you want to - live with a 5am snorter...or a 3 times a day meditator? When just then the baby's crying for mother's unadulterated milk...?
In summation If you apply the above five tips your first date conversations will be fun and successful. Remember to ask a lot of questions. Primarily, however, pay attention to what she says. This will help you to open new topics and advance your conversation in a natural manner.
Finally, dear reader, conversations during first dates truly are a fantastic opportunity to uncover important things that could potentially impact on your life for a helluva long time!
