subject: Before Meeting Your Soulmate Ask Yourself These 5 Questions [print this page] Before you ask Where do Ifind my Soulmate?", you need to ask yourself if your ready to meet him. What qualities would your soulmate appeal to? Are you still carrying all the
emotional baggage from past relationships? You have to be open to the possibilities and opportunities for change that your search for a soulmate will bring into your life? Ifthe person youre looking for is fun, trust worthy andresponsible, are you putting your self out there to attractpeople with these qualities? Are you prepared for love? Are you ready to commit to love? Just as you are looking for certain qualities in a soulmate, your soulmate is also looking for certain qualities. The worstthing that can happen to you is to find the person youbelieve is your soulmate and discover hes not into you.Not that he doesnt like you, but that he feels youre notthe right person for him.Do you admire men who are financially responsible, then
more than likely hes not going to find a woman deep indebt, over the limit and living pay check to pay check agood choice for a mate. But if you started clearing upyour debt, living within your means and learming how toManging your money will him feel more securethat some thing thats important to him, is also importantto you.
To be sure that youre ready to meet your soulmate ask yourself these 5 questions.
What am I looking for in my soulmate? This is where many women get off track. There are a lot of things that are definite deal breakers, but many things that you might list are not really as important. Youll never find a perfectperson. We all have faults, so you need to decide which of your faults will be acceptable if the major qualities and values are there. Remember the shorter your list the better your possibilities for success. The longer you make your list the more youre limiting your self and increasing your chance of excluding your soulmate. What qualities do I need to show to attract my soulmate? What would he be attracted to. Think of the type of person you would like to attract. What is it about you that would draw him in? Do you see your self possessing the qualities you want in him. Im not saying you have to change who you are, but if there are things that youve wanted to work on, this is the time to do it. Start an exercise program. Eathealthy. Straighten out your finances. Start going back to school.You can look for a better job. Everything you put off until later, start them now.Make a list of 5 things you want to work on and start working on them one at a time. What qualities do I have now that canattract my soulmate? Now that youve thought about what you want andwhat he might be looking for, you can start looking atwhat qualities you already have. Count your assets. Countyour blessings. This can be the hard for a few people.So, ask your friends and family to tell you what makesyou special. What is it about you that they like? You may be surprised by most of the answers. What have peoplepraised you for in the past? What special talents and skills do you possess? Make a list and look at it everyday.Add to it often and learn to acknowledge how great you are. Am I ready for a relationship? A lot people enter into a relationship with some emotional baggage. The more emotional baggage you have the harder it is to get on the path to a stable long term relationship. analyzing how we feel about our pasts can be hard. A few people dont want to remember their past relationships. But to succeed in a new relationship you need to look back and let go of any anger or fear that you might have. Part of growing is realize that youre a different person and releasing yourself from those feeling. Forgive those in your past andmove on. Never let pain and fear from your past control your future happiness. So lighten your emotional load andget rid of some of the baggage. Make a list of 5 things in your past and find a way to close the doors on those relationships so you can open new ones.
What do I need to do to appeal to my soulmate? Get out there and meet men. Youre not going to attract your soulmate if you dont find a way to meet him. Put your profile on dating sites like Match.com, FriendFinder.Com or even PlentyofFish.com (which is a free site). Join some activities or clubs fortopics youre interested in. Join a gym. Go to a sporting event. Try speed dating. Let some of your friends set you up on a blind date. Just put yourself in places where you canmeet single men.Make a list of the top 5 places where you can meet men and get started. Being at your best will give you a lot more confidence. When a woman is confident she displays an energy that attracts men. Your soulmate will find it hard to disoblige these qualities. At this point you'll never have toask yourself Where can Ifind my soulmate? again. You'll be drawing your soulmate to you.
Before Meeting Your Soulmate Ask Yourself These 5 Questions
