subject: Common Mistakes To Stop Now In A Relationship [print this page] We all go through different stages of up"s and down in our life with those we love; this could mean a spouse, lover, boy friend, girlfriend or partner. When things are going great we don"t worry about anything major, but when the relationship is in trouble we do and say things out of desperation, which typically doesn"t work because of the pressure put on the one who wants out. Our first response is to fix what is broken, (whatever that means), but in most cases there are hidden problems without solutions.
When we first meet our spouse, there are certain qualities that attract us to him or her, in many cases we hold these same qualities against our mate and dilute how we may interrupt adorable, cute or loveable. This is just the tip of the iceberg, what I"m saying is, stop acting in such a way that your partner looks at you like your some giant monster.
This means that you get to stand back and listen more and speak less, but during this time it"s essential you keep strong but humble, and stop making mistakes!
Here are some things that may assist in this area, let"s call it damage control.
Being to nice and acting like it makes you the greatest match
Using persuasion to lure your partner back in what you may see as logic
Being or pretending to be the human doormat
Be overly generous with gifts and flowers
Being a broken record and saying I love you every five minutes
Overlooking the power of chemistry
Allowing your ex partner to make all the decisions
Miss understanding of hints from your ex partner
Have you ever heard the saying "Nice guys finish Last?" well it"s true. People see it as a sign of weakness or perhaps that you"re hiding something. A friend of mine had this boyfriend once who would never disagree with her; she later found a mountain of hidden baggage.
There get"s to be conflict or opposition because even our relationships would be boring without opposition, like any great movie there are good guys and bad guys.
These are just a few mistakes that we all have made from time to time, if you felt some of this was pointed towards you then please go to: http://howtogetyourexboyfriendbackguide.com watch the video and follow the links to: http://howtogetyourgirlfriendbackguide.com to read testimonials and gain insight to take a look at The Magic of Making Up, this is a guide that has worked for over 50,000 people and can work for you. Take the time, look and gain knowledge to create confidence, this greatly improves your odds of getting back with your ex partner.
I promise you, that if you follow these steps you will be successful and thrive in life as a human being.
