subject: Dating Tips for Men - How to Deal With a Woman Who Likes to Play Games [print this page] Dating Tips for Men - How to Deal With a Woman Who Likes to Play Games
Depending on the kind of games that a woman will play, my advice is sometimes to just move on and forget about her. It's not always worth it to get caught up in the spider web of games that some women will play with a guy, and so, sometimes the best answer is to just move on and forget about her. However, all women play some games on some level, so you are going to have to be able to handle this if you are going to have any kind of success when it comes to dating women.
There's a big difference between a woman that keeps you on your toes and a woman that brings unnecessary drama into your life, so you need to kind of judge what you are willing to deal with. For example, I knew a guy that once dated a woman who had him getting into fights just about every week. To me, that would me a total turn off and I just would not deal with that.
However, if a woman plays the kind of games where she makes you feel like you are taking one step forward and then one step backwards, that can be kind of fun when you know how to handle her. That's when you get to show her what you are made of, plus you get to test yourself a little and see how much you really know about women. So, it's not always a bad thing.
Here's how to deal with a woman that likes to play games:
1. Maintain your confidence the entire time.
Sometimes a woman will play her little games with you just as a test, to see if you are able to handle her or if you are not ready for her yet. If you lose all your confidence, what do you think she is going to think? That you cannot handle her and that's when she will either stop calling you, or she will start putting you into her little friend zone as one of those guys she can count on for a favor, or when she just wants to hang out with a friend.
2. Test her back.
Sometimes a woman plays those games as a way to be playful. And the only thing that you should do then, is to play them right back with her. Show her that you are not a serious guy all of the time and that you can dish it out and take it. You never know when you just might find that this kind of dynamic gives you the right chemistry and makes for a fun time.
3. Ignore them.
This can be the best thing to do when a woman throws a little tantrum or she thinks that she has you twisted around her little pinky and you will do whatever she says. Ignoring a woman when she is acting like this shows her that you are not going to deal with that kind of behavior and you have to hold your own when you do this. You can't back down, because then she knows that she can get to you whenever she wants to.
