subject: Will She Come Back To You? - Not If You Are Making These Mistakes [print this page] When it comes to relationships and breakups, men and women will respond very differently. I know that sounds pretty obvious, but it's amazing how many people promote/try the same ideas to get back their boyfriend/girlfriend. It pretty much should already be common knowledge to you, being that you have been in a relationship with a woman, to realize that you and her do not always react to the same things in the same way. When it comes to getting your girlfriend back, you have to understand that what works for a man is not going to work for a woman.
With that being said, the question is, will she come back to YOU? And to really answer that question, you have to identify whether or not you are making these three VERY common mistakes:
1. Are you trying too hard? Several years ago, when I did not know any better, I was trying to get back with my ex at the time. And like any man would, I was definitely trying too hard. So much so, that she even flat out said that I was trying too hard. When I eased up on her a bit, guess what? It only took a couple of weeks and we WERE back together!
2. Do you blame her for the breakup? You have to be able to admit your own faults from time to time. When you really want to get your girlfriend back, it's not the time to allow your ego to get in the way. It's time to man up and admit your role in the dissolution of your relationship.
3. Do you doubt that you can get her back? Sometimes, the mind can be the greatest challenge when you want to get your girlfriend back. After all, it's the mind that will direct what actions that you take. If you believe that you cannot get her back, will you even make a REAL effort? Probably not.
