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Empowerment is a Process
When we talk about empowerment it is not something that is mystical. Nothing will magically transform you into an empowered person. It is a process that you have to work at. Realize that you have developed an array of disempowering values, ideas and ethics. These things have been past down for generations and it will take time and effort to rid yourself of these habits.
Empowerment starts from within. Realizing the metrics of your situation is part of the starting point. If you have a situation, search within yourself for the answer to deal with it. The old methods and idea that we used as tools to answer or resolve problems, never worked, so why not give your inner self a chance. Remember that life develops what it demands- the toughest path creates the strongest warrior. Pray not for a lighter load, but for stronger shoulders.
Empowerment is realizing who you are, what you have become. Start developing the conscientious within to resolve your situations. Developing or finding a way to tap into your inner self can be an elusive task. We put up crossroads that hinder our journey to self empowerment. When you hold on to your fears, outdated and never relevant value systems, and all the past down ideologies, you don't allow the doors of higher and better understanding within yourself to open.
Dwelling or forming your thoughts on the things that have kept you disempowered for so long, keeps you in that state of mind. We don't do this intentionally, but it is the way we have all ways perceived thing to be. You have to ask yourself, where has my way of thinking gotten me? Am I the spiritual person I was intended to be? Am I truly providing the best of me, and sharing that energy with my friends, family and world? When we start our thoughts with positive energies we open the door to empowering ourselves.
When we no longer reflect on our old way of thinking, we no longer breathe negativity into our lives. It will dissipate from your existence. By no longer forming your thoughts and reasoning with unhealthy thinking, you open the door to the creativeness of your talents and experiences. There are things and circumstances that define who and where you are at this point in your life, so you have to ask yourself, does these circumstance and things really put me in touch with who I really aspire to be?
Once you develop a sense of self created from within, you gain control. You known rely on character, values and ethics, engrained through the practice of being a better, more informed and prepared person. The greatest discovery of all time is that a person can change his future by merely changing his attitude.