subject: 4 Working Steps on How to Win Your ex Back [print this page] If you have been dumped and want to get back with your ex then I am going to give you a few steps on how to win your ex back. The key here is in knowing what happened in the relationship and trying to alter or change that top make it work. 1) First things first, giving him space will allow him/her to cool off and think about what happened. This will allow him/her to miss you quickly as well. The idea of not speaking to your loved one may be hard at the moment but in the long run it will work for the better. 2) Going out with friends and doing things you can enjoy will help because, seeing that you are not really affected by the break up may cause him/her to think you are more tempting and possible jealousy. Be sure not to hurt his feelings any, if you go and get another significant other it may cause them to lose interest entirely. 3) Make sure he/she knows that you still care about them. Asking how they are doing and showing interest could be the final key to getting him/her back. 4) Forgiving and forgetting is the major thing you have to overcome. There is not just one person at fault and you both have to realize that and be able to move on from it. Holding grudges will only lead to further problems. Most relationships can be saved after a breakup. Thats because critical mistakes are made in the days following the split. In fact, youre probably making those very mistakes right now without realizing it. So if you are ready to get back with the ex, take a look at The Magic of Making Up (Get Your Ex Back), it could be a real eye-opener for you.
