subject: Better Sex in My Marriage - Getting to where the Bedroom Play is Exciting and Passionate again! [print this page] Better Sex in My Marriage - Getting to where the Bedroom Play is Exciting and Passionate again!
When you want to have better sex in my marriage you are going to discover that you have to open your mind, open the lines of communication, and be willing to seek out help from others that have been through it. This is important because better sex in my marriage will never happen if you just keep repeating the same thing over again.
A very smart man onces said that the definition of insanity is trying the same thing over and over again expecting different results. So if you have a habit of doing the same thing over and over again in the bedroom, but you expect different results then guest what, you are INSANE!
You can have better sex in my marriage if you work at it and you communicate. It is all about trying new things, new places, new role playing games, and testing your comfort level a little bit. This is how we grow and when you first had sex you were testing those boundaries. Now you are comfortable and having sex is probably routine. It is time to test some boundaries and step out of the box again.
You need to have something new to try and sometimes coming up with ideas is the hardest part. You don't want to take it too far to where you scare your partner and it gets even worse, but you want to test the waters and try new things. This is why you have to be very comfortable with each other and not afraid to talk about your desires and what you want to experiment with.
Let's face it, we all love sex, but when it gets boring we want something new and fresh. Some people use this as a sign it is time to move onto a new partner, but this is not necessary. You just need to tap into the dirtier side of your partner and appeal to them on a sexual level. You might even have to base the relationship on sex for a little while to really get into it and put all the other things on the back burner while you discover new and exciting things in the bedroom.