subject: How to Make Your Guy Commit – A Serious Look Into His Heart [print this page] How to Make Your Guy Commit A Serious Look Into His Heart
Have your dates been real fun, but it's time you got him to commit to you? Does he know how you feel about the matter and he's still not making a move? Are you about to threaten him with the possibility of leaving if he doesn't wise up? Threats and pressure in a case like this don't always give the desired results. Are you truly prepared to lose him? Take a look at these tips before you take such drastic measures.
Talk to him is a calm and reasonable manner. Let him understand the how and why of what you feel then be ready to listen to his point of view. He could give you some very reasonable explanations as to why he's not yet ready to make this move.
And if he simply tells you that he may never be ready to make a commitment, that's when you'll need to make your decision to stay or go.
Commitments can come with a lot of fear for a guy because he knows all that he risks losing, namely his freedom. If he's begun to see how restrictive you can be towards him, he might be questioning his future with you.
Would you really be eager to commit to someone who is apt to keep you from doing everything you enjoy? Probably not. While a relationship comes with some responsibilities, you don't want to turn this into a dull chore he'll grow tired of.
Try to keep the romance as fun and fresh as when you first met. After all, he fell in love with a vibrant and smart woman who touched all the right chords. If you're suddenly uptight and frazzled because you want this commitment so much, you could be turning him off more than you realize.
Many men have dumped a woman who simply wanted too much too soon.
Gauge your relationship with him well and entice him into that commitment. Having fun and seeing that you're truly the woman who makes him happy, he'll be the one to bring up the topic of that ultimate commitment.
