subject: Signs Of An Unfaithful Spouse - 10 Signs You're Being Cheated On And Don't Even Know It [print this page] Do you suspect that your spouse may be cheating on you behind your back?
If you're tired of wondering whether or not your spouse is being faithful to you, then this article is for you. By the time you've finished reading this page you'll be 10 steps closer to finding out whether or not he's having an affair.
Here are 10 Quick Signs of Cheating:
#1) More Interest in Personal Appearance
If your spouse is suddenly much more OCD than normal about looking good, then they could be trying to impress someone. Even if they're not cheating yet, you should be on the lookout for more to come.
#2) Dances Around the Topic of 'Work'
If your wife/husband is constantly dodging the subject of their job, then there's a good chance that there's something you don't know. It might not be an affair, but it could mean that your husband isn't always at his job exactly when he says he is.
#3) Sketchy Behavior While Surfing the Internet
Did you know that online cheating causes 30% of all divorces in the US? Do you ever find that your internet history has been suspiciously deleted? Your spouse probably has a FaceBook or Email Account that you don't know about, and they're probably using it to communicate with their lover.
I highly recommend looking into a KeyLogger program or something similar.
#4) He Doesn't Want to Socialize With You
If you think that your husband or wife is cheating on you, then one of the best places to look for evidence or suspicious behavior is at social gatherings. Of course, if your spouse suddenly doesn't want you to go out with them and their friends, then that's an even bigger sign of cheating.
#5) Changes In Your Sex Life
I'm sure that you've heard this one before, but it's still worth mentioning. The fact of the matter is that in EVERY AFFAIR results in subtle changes in the marriage or your sex life.
Perhaps that was confusing...Let me try again: If you're being cheated on, then there will be proof of it in your sex life. Whether it be more sex or less, something will change.
#6) Check Pockets Frequently
One of the best ways to find evidence of an affair is to constantly check your spouse's pockets. You're bound to find tons of incriminating evidence, especially if your spouse thinks that you don't suspect a thing. Check for any receipts, or for his cell phone, or for anything else that could point to another woman.
One of the best ways to do this is to offer to do laundry.
#7) Emotional Distance
The fact of the matter is that very few men and women are capable of having an affair without placing at least a little bit of blame on their spouse. This is one of those signs of cheating where your spouse may not actually be 'doing the deed' quite yet, but they're definitely thinking about it.
#8) You Catch a Lie
Even the whitest of lies can be proof of disloyalty. Believe it or not, having an affair takes quite a bit of thought, and many people can't keep all their lies straight so they slip up occasionally. If your spouse lies to you about something, listen to their excuse, but take note of it. Don't forget that they're probably cheating on you.
#9) Won't Take Calls Around You
Many times cheaters will do a poor job of communicating when it's appropriate to call and when it's not. As a result, you're probably going to be around your husband/wife when their lover calls them, at least every now and then. Obviously your spouse won't want to be around you when this happens.
#10) Most Important Tip! Listen To Your Gut
Did you know that 85% of suspicious spouse's are correct about their partners cheating on them? It's a proven fact that a 'Woman's Intuition' (or 'man's intuition', I guess!) is one of the most powerful tools you can use to catch cheating.
Everything listed in this article will help you to determine whether or not your spouse is being unfaithful, however, at some point you're just going to have to break down and determine to get proof of your husband or wife cheating on you.
How to Get Cold, Hard Proof of an Affair
So how exactly do you do that? How can you get proof of infidelity behind your back?
