subject: Catch Your Husband Cheating On You - How To Easily Detect Infidelity In Your Sex Life [print this page] Do you suspect that your husband is seeing another woman on the side?
Do you wish that finding proof of his infidelity could be as easy as closely examining your sex life?
I'm willing to bet that sounds pretty good to you, so this is what I'm going to do for you...
As you continue to read this article you're going to learn:
1. The Very First Thing You Should Do if You Suspect a Cheating Husband
2. Signs in Your Husband's Sexual Behavior that Tip You Off to Cheating
3. How Exactly Your Husband is Cheating on You
4. How to Catch Your Husband Cheating When Nothing Else Works
The one good thing we've got going for us here is that detecting a husband's sexual behavior is much easier than analyzing a wife's.
Remember! Your woman's intuition is probably your best tool to for sniffing out signs of cheating, at least for right now!
First Things First, It's Not Your Fault He Cheated
I know that the thought might have crossed your head that perhaps something you did (or didn't do) could be the reason that your husband is cheating on you. Guilt is a natural reaction to infidelity, and really any traumatic event.
And honestly, there is some truth to it I suppose...Your husband could be telling himself that he's cheating on you out of revenge for something you've done. Or he could tell himself that he deserves more sex than he's getting. But do you know what?
He's lying to himself, and no matter what you've done, I guarantee you that your husband would still cheat on you regardless. That's just the way these things go. And don't go thinking that it's just men who cheat like this, because as of 2007 there's only a 5% difference in the percentage of cheaters between men and women.
In case you're wondering, I believe recent studies show that 40% of women and 45% of men have cheated or will cheat at some point. Whether it be physical cheating, emotional cheating, or online cheating.
How Can You Find Signs of Cheating in Your Sex Life?
If you get nothing else out of this article, then remember this:
If your husband is cheating on you, there WILL be signs of it in your sex life.
Now, unfortunately I can't tell you exactly what those signs are without knowing you and your husband a little bit better (sorry), but I can GIVE YOU some information that will help you to identify what to look for.
Option #1) My husband and I don't have sex often, but we never really did to begin with.
If this is you: Be on the lookout for extra emotional distance.
If you and your husband don't have sex very often simply because that's how your relationship works, then it can be hard to detect when he makes the switch from being a dispassionate lover to being a cheating spouse. Usually if this is the case, then your husband will show you he's cheating in other areas of your every day life. For example, because he feels justified in cheating, he will probably begin to distance himself from you as a person, not just as a mate.
Option #2) My husband and I used to have sex all the time, but rarely do anymore.
If this is you: Watch out! You should really start looking for proof with a magnifying glass.
Unfortunately, this is a Class A sign that your husband is cheating on you. As I stated before, it's most common for men and women to experience emotional withdrawal during an affair, especially if it's more than just physical. The fact of the matter is that most people don't like thinking of themselves as 'cheaters', so they find justification instead.
Option #3) My husband and I are having sex MORE THAN EVER!
If this is you: Congratulations! But you're not necessarily in the clear...Just keep reading.
However, you still shouldn't dismiss the possibility of infidelity. You see, although it's less common in men than women, occasionally having an affair will seem to awaken the sexual side of a person. Typically this is a sign of cheating only when the spouse who normally isn't as sexually dominant commits infidelity, hence why women are more likely to experience this phenomena than men.
How to Catch Cheating and Prove He's Guilty Once and For All
I know, I know...You're sick of wondering whether or not your husband is guilty...You just want the truth! Doubt can be consuming, and the sooner you get evidence of your husband's infidelity the better for your emotional health.
So this is what I'm going to do for you:
If you're ready to get proof of your husband cheating and end the pain of doubt, then go ahead and take a look at this guide to catching affairs...It'll go into detail on every aspect of cheating, and then some.
