subject: Is there Anything I can do to Stop my Cheating Wife? [print this page] Is there Anything I can do to Stop my Cheating Wife?
Men who have a cheating wife on their hands are filled with worry, resentment, and more than a little bit of anger. They invest a lot of time wondering is there anything I can do to stop my cheating wife. At least, that's what they are wondering about if they still love their cheating wives.
But, what can you do to stop your cheating wife when she seems bound and determined to cheat on you?
Remove the Thorn from her Paw
While she may not be a Lordly Lion the odds are good that there is something that is festering in the relationship and causing issues between the two of you. It might take a little digging to get down to it but you must find out where the real problem lies before you can even begin to hope to have any sort of favorable outcome for your marriage.
Common relationship thorns include some of the following:
You spend too little time together.
You've stopped being romantic.
She feels unloved.
She's lonely.
You've hurt her feelings in a way that she just isn't quite able to express openly.
She feels like you're slipping away from her.
You haven't gone out on a date, just the two of you, since you had children.
The two of you never spend any quality time together.
You never touch her anymore.
You never cuddle and comfort when you do touch her.
She feels as though her efforts to keep the family running are unappreciated.
She feels taken for granted.
This isn't to say that you are guilty of all of these, or even one of these. This is just a list of commonly stated reasons that women cheat on their husbands. They are common marital problems that put distance between husbands and wives and could be a problem for you and your wife.
Ask her what she needs from You
If she's turning to another man then there is something she needs that you're not giving her. Now, I'm not saying that you are the culprit here. She may have never told you she needed whatever it is he's giving her. She may not have even known what it was until it was offered and she realized just how important to her soul it is.
Your mission is to figure out what it is and make sure that you are able and willing to give it to her from now to eternitywhatever it happens to be. Sometimes just asking will open the floodgates and get the healing conversations started
