subject: What type of questions should you ask on a first date? [print this page] What type of questions should you ask on a first date?
First dates can be nerve wrecking if you don't know what to talk about. Uncomfortable silences can kill the mood and ruin your chances. But there are a couple of topics that will always keep women interested and keep your date fun and exciting. Let me show you a couple of interesting subjects you can talk about on your first date.
First of all, next to physical contact, conversation is the best way to create a connection and sexual chemistry between you and your partner. A passionate conversation followed by proper physical escalation is the recipe for success if you want to have a romantic relationship with the woman you like.
The biggest error most people make when choosing conversation topics is going with generic interview type questions like: "What do you do for a living?" or "Where do you live?" Never ask questions that will give you data only. You want to have conversations that will entice feelings inside her, hopefully positive ones, and help you jump to other subjects...
This is why you should never ask about past relationships because they often bring back old memories that won't help you gain attraction. She might even associate her old feelings with you and start feeling uncertain and afraid that the same situation will happen again.
You should always steer the conversation on a fun subject that she feels passionate about. One of the favorite questions I like to ask a woman is "What did you want to be when you were a kid?" You can then ask her why she wanted to be so and so and she will start giving you some valuable information on her passions and what makes her tick.
Other subjects you can talk about are her hobbies or simply ask her what she likes to do for fun. These subjects will get her to open up and will give you some insight into her personality. If you talk about stuff that makes her happy, she will associate these feelings with you and she will start to see you as the source of these good feelings. You'll then start to feel a genuine connection and the both of you may start to feel genuinely attracted to each other...
If you manage to talk about your passions and interests, you both may start to realize that there may be more between you than a simple attraction. A genuine connection is how lasting relationships are born. So follow the advice I just gave you in this piece and your first date should be a resounding success.
