subject: Get More From Your Relationship [print this page] Get More From Your Relationship Get More From Your Relationship
Get more of everything you want or will ever want in your relationship. Have it now in your existing relationship, or your very next relationship. You decide; it is really your choice. You can have everything you want or think you want in any relationship, as soon as you understand how relationships work, and how people themselves work. Yes, this includes you. If you are tired of the same old relationship that you seem to have over and over again, and are ready to have the best that life has to offer, then it's time you did something about it.
First of all, you have to get over the poor me syndrome. I know that sounds harsh, but it doesn't really help you, or anyone else for that matter. No one appreciates someone who feels sorry for themselves. Instead you need to pick yourself up and realize what you have going for yourself. Take a good look at all your good features; look closely at what you have to offer yourself and others around you. What do you really like about yourself? Are you a kind hearted person who will do anything for someone you care about? Or maybe you are the adventurous up for anything type of person who knows how to really live life. Maybe you are a combination of both or something completely different. The fact is, you have to take an inventory of yourself, and realize that you are something special and the right person will want you just the way you are!
So how do you find that right person? That person may be right next to you already. You may have been in a relationship with that person for years, and never realized that they are the one who can give you everything you want. If you could only open up to yourself and to them, then they could be taking care of your every need and desire. And you could be the same for them. The point is, you will never find your perfect person until you start being who you are. If for some reason you just can't stand who you are, then find out what it is you don't like about yourself, and fix it! It really is that simple. I mean if you really don't like it, then get rid of it. Would you hold a warm piece of stinky poop in your hand just because it was yours? No, you wouldn't even touch it in the first place would you? Then don't hold on to your mental or character poop!
This is a great first step in getting everything you want. Everything begins within you. Find out the person you are, and then you will understand what you want. When you know what you want, then others will be able to provide that for you. You will even be able to communicate what you want to people so they have a chance to give it to you. But this is just a first step.
