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The pain of a lost relationship rivals that of a loss by death. This is because we are relational beings that derive most of our self esteem and emotional well being from the relationships we are in. While there are relationships which are beyond salvage, there are many which can be redeemed. Are you one of them andwant your ex back? Sometimes this may be a hopeless undertaking but if one knows how to play their moves right, they can emerge the winner and have their ex back in their life again. Let us examine these moves.
One of the power moves to get your ex back is to remain friends with them without crowding them. One must master this technique in order to even consider the other moves. Being friendly to your ex without crowding them means being as cordial and as polite as possible but at the same time allowing them as much space as possible. This may mean meeting with them at a party and smiling warmly, asking how they are and then moving on to sit somewhere else. Sometimes it may mean withdrawing just when your ex starts to think you are still in admiration of them. This tactic is very powerful and earns you full marks and the trust to pursue the other moves. Another tactic that is related to the one above is called no contact. This means that although you maintain a cordial and warm relationship, you are not to initiate contact whatsoever. You are to maintain a healthy distance and avoid appearing like you are "stalking" your ex. This may mean pursuing your hobbies more passionately and even acquiring a new circle of friends outside those that are common to both of you.
Yet another power move that canhelp the return of your ex is being friendly to your ex's friends. This again must be done wisely to avoid the appearance that you are stalking anyone or a dependent on them. Maintaining a friendly relationship with your ex's friends can be a very powerful strategy. This is because you now have an ally on the inside. This is someone who will discuss you to your ex and can probably put in a good word.
Tied to the above power move is being friendly with your ex's parents. This can also be a very potent move that can earn you a lot of leeway in your journey back. Occasional flowers and holiday gifts to your ex's mother can do wonders. Again, here you have an ally on the inside. This is someone with a powerful voice whom your ex listens to and who has the necessary influence to sway your ex in your favor.
