subject: 5 Things Not To Do If You Want Your Ex Back-get You Ex Back Before They Go On The Rebound [print this page] If you have just split up with your lover then it's a scary time because he or she is vulnerable to getting into a rebound relationship. The fact is that just over 2/3 people who have just broken up will sleep with someone on the rebound.
This article will show you 5 things not to do if you want your ex back.
1. Don't turn to the booze for comfort because all this will do is make your ex think that you are a loser who can't face up to problems.
2. Don't let yourself go, try your best to look smart and smell good. If you stop caring about how you look and your ex sees you in a mess then the chances of getting him or her back get ever slimmer.
3. Don't pester. Texting and calling all the time will just make you a pest. This is a surefire way of making your ex have a rebound relationship in the hope that you stop calling.
4. Don't try to get your ex jealous, you may think that being seen with a new partner will drive them back into your arms. In fact all this will do is make your ex do the same and find a rebound lover.
5. Don't try to use emotional blackmail, for example if you have kids don't use them as an excuse that you should get back together. All this will do is get you back for the wrong reasons and not solve anything.
What you should do if you want to get back with your ex is sit down and think what went wrong. You may then realise that a split was the best thing. Or you may realise that in order to get back and stay together that you need to change.
