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Do you seem to posses the power of making sure a guy you like doesn't fall for you? Would you like to know what mistakes you're making? What exactly is it that you're doing wrong? Are you doomed to being single forever? Sometimes it can feel like you just aren't attractive to men. But take a look at the following ways to ensure that a guy doesn't fall for you, and see if you can avoid them when it really counts.
Put lots of pressure on him.
You might need to really think about this one. None of us assume that we're making these obvious mistakes, but plenty of people actually do make them, so let's do the math. If you seem to have a man-repellent spray on, ask yourself if you seem desperate. If you push so hard for a relationship that you actually drive men away, you might be putting on too much pressure.
Do you, for example, drop hints about commitment into every conversation? Are you constantly trying to get him to tell you his feelings? You might think that you are being subtle about this, but you probably aren't.
Rush into things.
This is similar to the pressure situation. If you get too serious too fast, you might as well be driving guys off with a stick. Some relationships happen quickly, but you can't make it happen that way.
Things need to grow naturally. It's not a sprint. You want to lay a solid foundation for a lasting relationship. If you are too impatient, you will kill your chances.
Use sex to get what you want.
Can you get a guy to fall for you by withholding or offering sex? Maybefor a little while, at least. But you should realize that this will ultimately hurt you more than it hurts him, or helps your relationship.
You need to decide when sex feels right for you, as part of a loving relationship. Don't use it as a weapon. You can manipulate a guy buy using sex, but you can't earn his love.
Make sure to think only about what you want.
Many women complain about how self-absorbed men can be. Many of them are, of course, just out for what they want. But the plain truth is that plenty of women are like this, as well.
The woman who talks about herself all the time is a well-known and much-feared "type" to men. If you want to show him your real self, then show him, don't tell him. And, you might need to be a bit introspective, and take a look at how often you worry just about yourself and what you want. You might be surprised.
You can find love, and you deserve it. Just avoid some common errors if you want him to fall for you, and build a loving partnership.
