subject: Are You a Bad Flirt? [print this page] Are You a Bad Flirt? Are You a Bad Flirt?
Are you a bad flirt? Do you wonder why other women seem to get far more attention from men than you do? Would you like to know what you are doing wrong, so that you can go out and feel confident when you talk to the opposite sex? Here are a few mistakes that might make you a bad flirt.
You don't make eye contact. It's natural to feel nervous or shy around someone that you're interested in. However, if you can't even look at someone for a few seconds, you will either go unnoticed or appear unapproachable. Even a quick sideways glance is fine.
Think about how other people come across to you. If you want to flirt, the first thing you do is try to catch his eye. If he never looks at you, you probably conclude that he's not interested. You will come across the same way if you don't look at him.
You don't smile. This again might just be caused by your shyness, but it's very important to smile. Smiling will change your whole appearance and approachability. It's not always easy just to make eye contact and smile, but it will work wonders for your social life.
If you can just glance at someone, and offer a quick smile, you will seem completely different than you would if you don't smile. It's that simple; looking at the floor and frowning will make you a bad flirt. A smile clearly indicates your interest. If he doesn't talk to you after that, he just isn't interested.
You talk about nothing but yourself. Many women make this mistake. They want to make a good impression, so they monopolize the conversation by talking about themselves. If you are flirting properly, you aren't going to reveal too much about yourself right away.
You should be careful not to give the impression of being self-absorbed. You want to try to keep up your end of the conversation, but don't go on and on about yourself. Remember than men are more than used to meeting women who talk too much!
These tips might seem simple, but they make the difference between a good flirt and a bad flirt.
