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You have decided that you are going to take control of your life and make a move on a guy. Now that your mind is made here is what you need to do to make the move and create the right impression.
Make it gradual
Don't just jump the gun with your offer and stun him. If you want to make a move, make it gradual. Give him the feelers and get him into your comfort zone. Start by inviting him out for a group activity such as a movie that he would like to watch or to a party.
Get him to like you
Start by making this guy like you back. You can do this by taking interest in his hobbies and interest, listening to him, being there for him and in general having a fun time together. Having a good sense of humor will take you a long way in getting him to like you.
Ask him out alone
Once you two start enjoying each others' company it's time to take the next step. Ask him out to do something with you alone. Tell him that there is a place that you would like to go to with him or invite him over to your place for a small dinner for two. Fix up a time and date.
Be calm and confident
On the chosen day arrive before your ex. If it's at home then make sure that you are calm and confident and settled before he gets there. Don't be flustered and start hamming up the whole thing. Just be yourself and everything will go well.
Keep the conversation flowing
When he comes over just be your own self. Don't get jittery or talk too much. You'll have plenty to talk about. Keep the conversation generic for a bit and use humor if you feel things are getting difficult for you to handle. Just enjoy his company and you'll be fine.
Keep eye contact
Throughout the conversation keep the eye contact steady. It is through your eye contact that your ex will get the drift of what is to take place. Look at him meaningfully and flirt with him a little.
Now express you interest
Once you have done all of these things and he has responded favorably you need to come out and tell him how you feel. Don't go into details as that might scare him off. Just tell him that you really like spending time with him and would like to explore a little more with him. He is sure to say yes.
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