subject: How to Rebuild Your Relationship When Someone Cheated [print this page] How to Rebuild Your Relationship When Someone Cheated
So you or your mate cheated and your trying to reconcile the relationship but your wondering if there's any hope of making it work. The quick and dirty answer is yes, but there's a whole lot more to it.
How I Won My Girlfriend Back
Far too often couples jump right back into a relationship and pretend that all is forgiven and forgotten only to find themselves in the same boat not too far down the road. There are things that must be addressed before you can successfully move on, with or without your mate. Let's take a look at a few things...
First, you and your partner have to address the reason that caused one of you to stray. Look, cheating took place, so somebody wasn't happy. You need to find out why. If this isn't addressed and resolved then it will happen again, no doubt, sooner or later.
Second, you need to realize that trust has been broken and feelings have been hurt, whether they're your feelings or your partner's, it doesn't matter. Just remember, trust is a hard thing to acquire and it's even harder to regain, which means it may take some time to fully restore, but a little extra time is a small price to pay to keep someone you love in your life!
Third, you need to get some good advice on how to revive the relationship fire and put the wrong doings of the past behind you and your partner. There are a lot of people that specialize in this (rebuilding relationships after cheating), but it always makes sense to seek out those with a track record of reconnecting couples.
