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You do not know where you are going with your relationship. Nothing sounds as before, there is a lot of confusion and fear in the relationship. You are only acting as if you are happy while you are not deep inside. You feel guilty when you have to lie and hide your true feelings. You can not talk about the position of your relationship freely.
If you want to ponder over your distressed relationship, here are things that you may wish to consider. Determine for yourself what you want to include and exclude in your relationship. You can want psychological motivation and positive inspirations to form part of your relationship. Discussions, outdoor activities and events should therefore be on top of your list. Cheating, abuse and ignorance are things that you want to eradicate.
After having analyzed your relationship and getting your list of unwanted things as well as your wants, you need to find out if these are possible according to the situation in which you are. Study your partner to know if the latter will contribute to make changes in the relationship and if he will be able to grow from where he or she is.
You may need to keep your distance from the relationship, that is, separate for some time to see where things are clearly going. Alone, you will be in a better position to think carefully about the situation. You will not be under any stress and you will come up with proper things in mind.
You may come to the conclusion that you are not meant to be together. Nothing is going to work for the two of you and it is better that you both separate. You will be able to find someone for you, someone who will suit you.
You should not be depressed because not relationships can go on absolutely well. You need to remain open to communication with your partner if you both still want things to work.
Distressed relationships do not imply the end of everything. You and your partner first need to work on the relationship to save it. If nothing can be done after much effort, then it may need to end.
