subject: How To Make Your Ex Want You Back - Using The Emotional Trigger Of Doubt [print this page] Lets cut right to the chase, your lover, has split. It has temporarily crushed the life out of you and your pretty desperate right now. You feel like you have no choices and no power, you sit and pray a miracle will happen.
Well, there are certain actions you can take and should take, if you really want them back. These will give you a very definite fighting chance at getting your ex back quickly.
Firstly, you absolutely do not want to be seen as a wreck, by either your ex or their friends, yeah they'll talk to each other all the way through this one. Neither do you want to appear to be over compensating, don't go out and buy a new car and bleach your hair. This will stand out a mile as well.
You must find a happy medium, the best way to do this, and this sounds a little wacky at first. Is, to totally convince your unconscious that you are both pretty much back together, like its going to happen in a matter of days. Don't try and work out how, just do it. You'll create those mysterious vibes everyone is always talking about, and they will filter out into life around you. Then, the way you are easily dealing with it will end up getting back to your ex.
This way, you won't have been seen as arrogant or desperate or in the midst of an emotional crisis, you'll just be you, calm, and normal, not too bothered. This will in turn, throw your other half into total self doubt and wonder what you have gong on that they don't.
Remember, no one can stand to lose at anything, the human ego is so utterly vain and fragile that given the choice of leaving a relationship, full of doubt and feeling the other partner has it better than you, or getting back together to keep themselves sane, guess which one they'll choose.
What you must fully understand from this situation though, is that if your ex gets back with you and you think your home free and can then break down at their feet, thanking them for giving you another chance. They will almost certainly say to themselves "yep, I'm not missing anything here" and poof! out the door they go once again and probably for good this time.
How To Make Your Ex Want You Back - Using The Emotional Trigger Of Doubt
