subject: Let the Private Investigator Handle It! [print this page] Let the Private Investigator Handle It! Let the Private Investigator Handle It!
First of all, you don't want to break the law and get yourself into big trouble. Although all kinds of "surveillance technology" and "catch-a-cheater" devices are sold over the internet, in many cases it is not legal for a private individual (such as yourself) to use them. If you install software on your partner's computer to monitor what he's doing on the internet, or record his phone calls, or follow him and take pictures of him while he is with another woman, you could actually be arrested and go to jail!
There are serious privacy laws and anti-stalking laws that you must follow, even if you are trying to watch a cheating husband. Breaking these laws can be a federal offense, and most people are not even aware of this. This is when a good private investigator can be extremely useful. They are familiar with the laws in your state, and because they are licensed professionals, they have the legal right to put people under surveillance and gather evidence in ways that you are not allowed to. Once the investigator has gathered conclusive evidence on the cheating husband, he will present it to you. In the future, if this case goes to court, this evidence can be presented because it was obtained by a fair and impartial third party (the investigator).
If you were to try to show evidence that you gathered on your own, by "stalking" your husband, it would never be admissable. The cheating husband's lawywer would have it thrown out of court. The last thing you want to do is wrongly accuse your husband of having an extramarital affair. That could cause as much damage to your relationship as infidelity itself. This is especially true if you have a suspicious or jealous nature. If you are this type of person, then hiring a private investigator will help you uncover the FACTS.
