subject: A Couple Tips To Get Your Ex Back. [print this page] Are you in the middle of a breakup and want more then anything to get your ex back? Well the is nothing easy about this situation at all, I have been there before. I found myself dropping alot of weight, couldnt work or sleep. Well as I grew up and got a little older I relized that I went about getting her back all wrong. Read on to find out my mistakes that I did and try not to do the same.
When I was a little younger I went threw a really bad breakup withh a girl, and I went about it all wrong when trying to get her back. I was showing her all of my cards and how I was feeling and she wasnt letting me know anything. I let her know everything I was feeling and acted very panicky and out of control. I think this was the biggest turn off I could have done. When you are trying to get back your ex girlfriend the worst thing you can do is let your emotions control your actions. If I couldt have just played cool I would have relized she wanted me back just as much as I wanted her. But all the time I was letting her know that she was in control and she used it to her advantage. I remember I used to get in the car and drive to places and just try to get her off my mind. But it just made me more crazy then I was before. And this is also not good, to make her desperat makes them feel traped and they will just avoid you.
When you are trying to get your ex back, the best thing you can do for yourself is to take control of the situation and yourself. If you do this then she will start to look at you as a dominating factor of the breakup and that she better think threw everything very well because she is faced with you moving on. But still let her know you are willing to do what it takes to make up.
