subject: How To Get Back Your Ex.a Couple Tips. [print this page] Are you right in the middle of a bad breakup and you want to have your ex come back to you? Well there is nothing easy about going threw this situation as I have been threw it a couple times. I found myself dropping alot of weight, couldnt work or sleep. Well as I grew up a little bit I reflected back on the situation and relized, I made alot of bad mistakes. Read on to find out my mistakes that I did and try not to do the same.
When I was younger I went threw a bad breakup and I probably did everything you could imagin wrong to try and get her back. I was showing her all of my cards and how I was feeling and she wasnt letting me know anything. I let her know exactly what I was feeling all the time and acted panicky and needy. I believe this is the biggest turn off you can do and the worst thing you could do. When you are trying to get back your ex girlfriend the worst thing you can do is let your emotions control your actions. If I would have just took control of my emotions and played it cool, she wanted me back as much as I did. I remember I used to get in the car and drive to places and just try to get her off my mind. But it just made me more crazy then I was before. And this is also not good, to make her desperat makes them feel traped and they will just avoid you.
When you are trying to get your ex back, the best thing you can do for yourself is to take control of the situation and yourself. If you do this then she will start to look at you as a dominating factor of the breakup and that she better think threw everything very well because she is faced with you moving on. But still let her know you are willing to do what it takes to make up.
