subject: How to get your man back after a break up - Step 1 its a waiting game [print this page] How to get your man back after a break up - Step 1 its a waiting game
Getting back with your ex can be a messy business. When you first break up you feel like your world has collapsed and you don't know where to turn.
It is this emotional period which can be the worst time to contact your ex. I can speak from experience. I recently went through a breakup and I really want to get back together with my ex. I had no idea of what I should do and so I made the usual mistakes of calling and emailing and pleading and I can tell you that my ex did not want to talk to me when I was a crying mess on the phone!
This is the first mistake people make when they want to get back together. What is the best thing to do? Wait! Wait for a month or so and concentrate on yourself in that time. At the moment I am in my waiting period. I have made a decision that I will not contact my ex for at least 3 weeks from now! Why? What is the method behind this madness?
Behaving in the wrong way can cause your ex to pull away naturally! It is a human instinct! Where as if you break off contact and work on yourself you can give your ex the chance to miss you as well. While you have broken off contact you can also focus on yourself from a personal level. Maybe start a health kick, exercise etc etc. While doing that you are improving yourself and when you actually make contact with your ex again you will be stronger and more appealing to them.
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