subject: How To Approach A Beautiful Girl - Five Approach Tips [print this page] How To Approach A Beautiful Girl - Five Approach Tips
The thought of approaching a beautiful woman, and attempting to start a conversation, makes the average guy feel anxious and fearful. There are some proven techniques, however, that you can use to make approaching women a fun part of your daily routine. It's very important for you to handle this aspect of your "game" right away, because obviously you're not going to start sleeping with beautiful women -- or dating them -- until you've got the ability to approach them and get things started on the right foot.
One of the hang ups that a LOT of men seem to have, and it is quite common, is to have the fear of rejection from a woman. And this fear will keep you from even bothering to walk up and approach a woman if you feel the slightest bit of nerves creep in on you.
Let me share with you four keys to approaching women that will help you start meeting new girls on a regular basis:
1. Be aware of how you are breathing. When people get nervous, men and women, their breathing changes. And this kind of sets off a chain of events throughout their body and then, that's when the nerves really hit. When you feel like this, you will not approach beautiful women for anything. Calm yourself down and take deep, controlled breaths if you feel any nervousness -- this will stop that "chain reaction" from occuring, and put you in a relaxed state when you are approaching women.
2. You must also be conscious of your body language -- in particular, you want to walk like an alpha male. So how, exactly, do alpha males walk? With relaxed, upright posture and a smooth stride. Walk too fast and you seem too eager or even a little nervous. Maintain eye contact and smile -- never slump your shoulders or look down at your shoes, because this is the opposite of alpha male behavior. None of these things will make you seem attractive to the woman that you are going to approach.
3. Break the ice with a smile. The most effective way to "set up" your approach is to make eye contact with the girl and exchange a smile with her. If you swap smiles, then you've got a green light to approach her and start the interaction without it feeling weird or awkward. This also ensures that she won't be startled if you suddenly approach her out of nowhere.
4. Don't use a "line" to start the conversation; use an opener. Pickup lines are not effective because you're broadcasting the fact that you're sexually interested in her, before she knows anything about you. There are dozens of field-tested openers that you can use -- including Direct Openers, Indirect Openers, Situational Openers, and Opinion Openers -- which are are designed to make approaching girls a fun, enjoyable activity instead of something that causes you fear and anxiety.
