subject: Approaching Women Secrets - How To Approach Beautiful Women [print this page] Approaching Women Secrets - How To Approach Beautiful Women
The thought of approaching a beautiful girl, and attempting to start a conversation, makes the average guy feel nervous and intimidated. If you want to know how to approach women without worry and doubt holding you back, there are some tricks that you can use to make it easier on yourself. You are not going to be very successful attracting women if you cannot approach beautiful women, so, you have to get this part of your life handled as soon as possible.
It's very common for men to fear being rejected by the women they want to approach. And this fear will keep you from even bothering to walk up and approach a woman if you feel the slightest bit of nerves creep in on you.
Let me share with you four keys to approaching women that will help you start meeting new girls on a regular basis:
1. Breathe normal. When people get nervous, men and women, their breathing changes. And this kind of sets off a chain of events throughout their body and then, that's when the nerves really hit. When you feel like this, you will not approach beautiful women for anything. Calm yourself down and take deep, controlled breaths if you feel any nervousness -- this will stop that "chain reaction" from occuring, and put you in a relaxed state when you are approaching women.
2. Walk like an alpha male. How does an alpha male walk? With relaxed, upright posture and a smooth stride. Basically, you never want to seem like you're in a hurry to meet women or make an impression on them. Maintain eye contact and smile -- never slump your shoulders or look down at your shoes, because this is the opposite of alpha male behavior. None of these things will make you seem attractive to the woman that you are going to approach.
3. Break the ice with a smile. Really, the best way to "preface" your approach is to lock eyes with her for a moment, smile, and hopefully get her to smile back. If you swap smiles, then you've got a green light to approach her and start the interaction without it feeling weird or awkward. By doing this, you're also making sure that she won't catch her surprise when you approach.
4. Have an opener and not a line. The reason why some guys rely on "pickup lines" is because they have nothing original to say. There are dozens of field-tested openers that you can use -- including Direct Openers, Indirect Openers, Situational Openers, and Opinion Openers -- which are are designed to make approaching women a fun, enjoyable activity instead of something that causes you fear and anxiety.
