subject: How to Approach Women - Even When You Feel Like You Have No Game at All! [print this page] How to Approach Women - Even When You Feel Like You Have No Game at All!
You know, most guys assume that they are at a disadvantage because they don't have enough experience with women, or they think that they lack the "game" to approach a woman and actually get somewhere with her. Many times, though, that can BE an advantage, because you are in a much better position to learn what works and not be stuck on some method or technique that has been a failure since the high school days.
Seriously, there is a common thought that what works on a 18 year old girl is going to work on a 25 year old woman, and that is not really true at all. In that 7 year stretch, even an average looking woman has probably been approached a couple of hundred times. So, she is used to the same old, same old that guys use as game, and YOU can have a much more unique approach.
Here are some tips on how to approach women, even if you have no game at all:
1. Have a conversation starter already in mind.
This is what the pick up line is meant to be for, but really, having something more than just a generic line will do you a lot better. Like I said, a woman has probably been approached quite a bit and heard dozens or generic lines, so she knows how to handle this kind of an approach. An original conversation starter will make her look at you differently and that can be a very good sign.
2. You need to go in for the laughs right away.
Let's say that you are in a bar or club on a Friday night. Chances are, she was at work all day long and just like your job, it SUCKED. So, she is in need of a good laugh. This can make you seem like you are just the kind of guy that she was hoping to meet, and that can make her a lot more OPEN to getting to know you.
3. You have to toss in some strategic flirting here and there.
You can make a great impression on a woman, have a great approach, make her laugh, and STILL not get anything more than just a conversation. This is why you have to turn on the flirting and generate some HEAT with her. Otherwise, you are a cool guy that she likes to talk to, but she just does not feel "that way" about you. Ever hear that one before?
