subject: Why Did She Break Up With Me? Reasons Why Women Break Up and How You Can Get Her Back [print this page] Why Did She Break Up With Me? Reasons Why Women Break Up and How You Can Get Her Back
No matter what the time of year is, a break up can be awfully painful. When it happens around the holidays, it can end up feeling ten times worse. The timing of a breakup is not something that you can pick and choose, it's just something that you have to deal with. And when dealing with the breakup seems like it is too much, your mind can start searching for reasons why she broke up with you.
Don't stress yourself out too much trying to figure this out. A guy can go crazy trying to figure out why his girlfriend broke up with him and you definitely do not want to do that to yourself. Instead, you really want to focus your mind on finding a way to get her back.
Here are some common reasons why women break up with guys and how you can get her back:
1. She no longer feels the chemistry is there.
If she feels that the chemistry is no longer there, then what is going to keep her in the relationship? Usually nothing will unless you are able to bring back that chemistry that she did used to feel with you. Here's the catch: To bring back the chemistry with a woman, it's not about talking things out or making promises about how you are going to be the best boyfriend you can be. It's about flirting with her and making her feel that attraction that was there in the beginning of the relationship.
2. She thinks that you are too clingy and desperate for her attention.
If she thinks that you are too clingy and that you are desperate for her attention all of the time, this is a very common reason why women end a relationship with a guy. You can get her back, IF, you are able to prove to her that you are no longer going to act that way. The thing is, it has to be all about ACTION, it can't be just words that you say to her.
3. You haven't been there for her enough in the relationship.
This is the opposite of the reason above, and it can be an equal relationship killer. Even though a woman does usually respond well to a guy that knows how to do his own thing, if you do your own thing a little too much *while* you are in a relationship with her, that can be the straw that breaks the camel's back. To get her back, you have to be able to show her that you can and will be there for her, while at the same time maintaining enough independence so that she does not feel smothered by you.
