subject: Get Ur Ex Back - 1 Simple Rule to Follow That Will Get Ur Ex Back FAST! [print this page] Get Ur Ex Back - 1 Simple Rule to Follow That Will Get Ur Ex Back FAST!
You don't have to put up with that drowning feeling of loneliness, to get ur ex back is very easy if you know the right steps to take. If you really feel like you and ur ex were made to be with each other it is important to go about getting them back in the right manor. Keep reading to learn the exact techniques to help get you back to where you once were.
Break Off All Communication
You might think that this is a very brash decision at first but let me explain. Right now you want to get ur ex back out of a state of despair. This isn't good at all. Think about it, what if you had someone desperately calling you telling you how much they need and or want you. This is a major turn off. It is hardwired into our DNA to seek out the strongest possible partner to produce offspring. Desperation is not a very appealing or strong feature at all.
That is not the only reason you want to break communication. If you are fresh out of a relationship no matter who is at fault your ex might be sick of you. I know this may be hard to bear at first, but this time to yourself will give your ex ample time to start to miss you. I'm sure you've been in small disputes with ur ex. As soon as the argument is over if you are mad enough you don't even want to look at that person, let alone talk to them. So if you had a falling out the was able to cause you two to break up then it's going to take some time for the both of you to cool off.
This also works 2-fold because during the stages that your ex starts to miss you, they will figure out that you haven't contacted them and start to wonder how you are so ok with the situation. Even if you are torn up by it you must still keep your composure. They will begin to call you and you might think that you are free to get back together, but if you pursue them just now you could lose them FOREVER. There is more information on that on my blog.
The last and final reason you should break all communication in order to get ur ex back is because you have to find the very reason you broke up in the first place. If you go right after your ex as soon as the relationship ends your mind may still be clouded from the feeling of not having them. Most relationships end because of a small, very small, fundamental problem than manifest itself into bigger aspects of the relationship. With your free time you can begin to break down all of you 'problems' and find a single root cause to all of them. Once you have this cause you can begin to take the blame for some of your misguided actions. Let's face it, if you get back together with ur ex without knowing the problems, chances are you are going to break up again.
