subject: What Is Conversational Hypnosis And How Can It Help You [print this page] I recently discovered a technique that has helped me to take control of my life in a very positive way. In fact, the way the technique has helped me, and has also been beneficial to my loved ones as well. What I have been researching and studying is called conversational hypnosis, which for some may be foreign and other may have briefly heard about the topic.
Understanding Conversational Hypnosis
In my quest to live a more fulfilled life, I literally stumbled on conversational hypnosis and it dawned on me why I have never been able to get ahead in life and why it always seemed that someone was working against me. First, you must understand the definition of conversational hypnosis because this is vital, it is learning the technique that allows you to hypnotize someone else on the subconscious level without them noticing that anything is going on.
Of course, when I first read this definition, I thought wait a minute, I'm not looking to make someone do something against their will. However, with conversational hypnosis, you are merely making suggestions to the person's subconscious and cannot force them to do anything against their will. This made me feel much better about the entire process and I began studying more about this fascinating way of changing my life.
The basis for conversational hypnosis is engaging in normal conversation with someone else and then using words naturally that plants the suggestion in the person's subconscious. The way that I learned to reach the subconscious mind was by asking specific questions of the person while engaging in conversations. Such as, "what does this situation mean to you" or "do you remember when..." this is getting the other person to focus on the inward or creative mind of how something makes them feel.
After this, I learned to distract the conscious mind by using words that sound the same, but have different spelling, such as "write/right." You see, by using words incorrectly in a sentence purposely, it distracts the conscious mind, which it when the subconscious begins to take over. I learned that once the mind is distracted, then it becomes easier to imbed specific requests of the person, such as "this is something you can do, can't you?" or "you can make your bed, haven't you?" which is a deliberate confusing of words that the subconscious mind will "get."
I have since began using conversational hypnosis with those closest to me, but never told them what I was doing, and was amazed that the kids made their beds and I never asked them to! I took it a step further and began using it at work, before long I had received the promotion that I had longed for and everyone in the office was thrilled that I was promoted!
The most important aspect I have learned is that you cannot force anyone to do something beyond what he or she is willing to do. In other words, you can't make someone give you a million dollars if they do not want to nor have the means to do so.
