subject: Do You Want To Get Your Girlfriend Back? [print this page] Relationship endings are not a fun experience for anyone to have to go through. Very rarely do both people feel good when a relationship breaks up. When your girlfriend breaks up with you and you want to get her back, the situation can seem almost overwhelming. That is not to say, however, that you cannot get her back. YOU can. Just think of how many jerks have been somehow able to get their women to come back to them. Surely, you can do the same.
But, how can you get her back?
One thing that you must reflect on is the fact that men and women are going to respond much differently in relationships and dating. That might sound like a pretty obvious statement, but it's amazing how many people produce generic advice that somehow is supposed to apply to both male and females during a breakup.
You have to approach going about getting your girlfriend back with the perspective that the same things that work to attract a man back are NOT going to work to get your girlfriend to come back to YOU.
You have to change how YOU see HER.
Until you approach your ex girlfriend with the perspective of her being BRAND NEW again, you are going to be fighting an uphill battle. The reason is, you are going to still carry around the baggage that comes with your past together. You have to be able to see your girlfriend as though she were a new woman that you were pursuing.
This will cause you to take different actions. After all, you would not jump into an argument with a woman on the first date, would YOU? So, don't bring up issues that will lead to an argument when you speak to your ex. This will help you to get her BACK.
