subject: How To Pick Up Women - Tips On What To Do And What To Say [print this page] While most guys who want to learn how to pick up women are not really trying to be the kind of guy that goes out every single night trying hard to 'score,' it can still be a very good idea to get at least a little bit of knowledge on how to pick up women. After all, if you have this skill and you want to get a girlfriend or just have some fun dating around, you will be able to know what works and what doesn't work and have an almost unfair advantage over most other single guys out there.
Here's a few tips on what to do and what to say if you want to be able to pick up women:
1. As soon as you approach a woman, you should be the one to start the conversation.
As a guy trying to pick up a woman, the worst thing that you can do is to approach her and then stand there clueless waiting for her to say something to you. Like it or not, it is the guy's 'job' to start the conversation, especially when you are the one that makes the approach. Of course if she starts the conversation before you get the chance to, that's not a bad thing. But if you end up standing there and don't say a word, expect it to be met with a cold shoulder.
2. Ask her for her name as soon as you can.
The reason for this is simple. A person's name has an almost hypnotic sound to their ears. So, if you get her name and then you sprinkle it here and there in the conversation, she will be a lot more likely to feel a rapport and a connection with you. Ever notice how a top of the line sales person always finds a way to say your name when they pitch you something? It's the same principle.
3. Pay attention to her body language and read her clues so you know how she is feeling.
The best way to approach a woman and pick her up all depends on the woman's mood. If she is having a really bad day, you do not want to approach her the same way as you would if she is kicking back and having the time of her life. When you know how to read a woman's body language, you can get clued in on how she is feeling and then you really will know what the 'right' thing to say is.
