subject: How to Get Your Wife Back Fast - This Is Where You Need to Start [print this page] How to Get Your Wife Back Fast - This Is Where You Need to Start
If your wife is throwing around the D word, then you better be paying attention! Seriously, although some women do use things like a divorce as kind of an idle threat, most do not. So, if you find that your wife is tossing around the word divorce a little more often than she usually does, it's time for you to take notice. You would not believe how many guys will take that word for granted, only to be shocked when they find out that she really does mean it.
When a woman is tossing around the word, divorce, there is a reason for this. She is unhappy with the way that things are going and she does not see a way that things are going to change, so the only available option that she can come up with is to say that she wants the marriage to end. Here's the dirty little secret, though. Most women that say that they want to end the marriage, really want it to work out. They are just out of hope and don't know what to do.
That is where you come in. It's your job to make her see some hope in the relationship again. It is your job to make your wife feel like there is a compelling reason for her to give things another go. And you really can do this.
Here's where you need to start if you want to get your wife back fast:
1. You have to step back and really look at where your faults are in the relationship.
Time to own up to the mistakes that you may have made. Sometimes, you don't even mean to make them, it just kind of happens. That's okay, as long as you can see what they are and see a way to "fix" things and the only way to do this is to take a step back and look at what you can do differently.
2. Focus on making your wife feel attracted to you again.
This is not code for you to start sucking up to your wife, though there is nothing wrong with being genuinely nice and appreciative of her. This is about you bringing back some of that fire and that passion into the relationship again. You need to make her look at you the same way that she did way back when you first got with her.
3. Plan out what you are going to do, step by step to get your wife back fast.
If you haven't got a plan, you haven't got a chance. And if you don't have a plan, then all you are doing is relying on the off chance that somehow luck will sweep in and change things almost miraculously. Well, you can do that if you like, or you can get a real plan that is designed to make your wife want to get back with you.
