subject: I Have Split With My Girlfriend...how Can I Get Her Back? [print this page] I Have Split With My Girlfriend -- How Can I Get Her Back?
When a relationship is new, and suddenly comes to an abrupt end for one reason or another, both you and your girlfriend may be somewhat in denial that this really is the end of the affair.
It is hard for a guy to admit the fact that their girl has walked away from them. Their male pride has been injured and a spirit of rejection can come in.
The result is that they are constantly dreaming of her soon return. The thought, how can I get her back? Is at the forefront of their thinking at this point.
If that is you my friend, in order to achieve your aim you first need a strategy. And so, here are a few tips you will find work very well if you are diligent.
Remember, nothing works unless you work it!
Ask yourself the following questions;
1) Do you love her still?
2) Do you genuinely want her back?
3) Why?
4) Are your reasons valid?
Take heart in the thought that your chances are high that you will get your ex-girlfriend back. As long as your heart is in the right place, and you work at the strategy.
Some important points for you -- under no circumstances break down and cry in her presence. That is a no-no. If you want to get emotional, do it privately and out of sight.
Never appeare despairing. Play it cool. If you come across as needy, it will be very counter-productive. She may even end up avoiding you altogether!
Now, even though she may be the party who cut off the relationship in the first place -- be sure not to close off all communication.
She must know that the lines are open, even if the conversations are limited to Hi or How's it going.?
Let me suggest in conclusion, that you very carefully examine what went wrong with the relationship that you once enjoyed with your girlfriend, so that you can be back with her as soon as possible.
Mentally re--- construct the scenes where you fell out, argued and so on -- and you'll begin to see areas where you were not meeting your girlfriend's meats. And when you discover that you are, my friend, almost home and dry. So, good luck and go for it!
This article merely scratches the surface of course. Below you can find resource that will show you techniques that will astound you. I warn you though...its strong stuff!
