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Are you looking for ways to have better sex? Do you want to bring passion back into your relationship? Follow the 7 tips below to experience a sizzling, intense, throw your head back and scream sexual experience.
1. Have a Make Out Session
Remember when you first met and you weren't having sex. What were you doing? You were making out. The next time you are together spend time just kissing and touching each other with your clothes on. Take your time, kiss slowly and really savor the feeling. You will have better sex by allowing the passion between you to build to a fever pitch. This will make reaching orgasm easier, increase its intensity, and make your experience more pleasurable.
2. Foreplay All Day
Start your foreplay before you even see one another. I know you're probably saying: "Huh?" We're living in the age of technology, so communicating with your partner has never been easier. Send sexy e-mails and texts messages all during the day. It takes about two or three minutes to send a text and maybe five minutes to send an e-mail. Send a seductive text or e-mail detailing the things you will do to your partner when you do finally see them. Send several messages to plant the seeds of desire. You can have better sex by just turning on your biggest sex organ, your brain.
3. Switch It Up
Try different positions to add a little variety to your lovemaking sessions and maximize the potential for orgasm. Woman on top is said to be the best position for women to experience orgasm because the woman can control the rhythm of her movements and the amount of pressure to her clitoris and/or G-spot. The rear entry position better known as "doggy style" is a great position for stimulating a woman's g-spot, and men love it because they have more control over their movements and they can stimulate their partner's breasts and clitoris while making love. Experiment until you find what you and your partner like best.
4. Passion Play
Playing sex games is a great way to have better sex. Bringing some fun and excitement to your lovemaking experience is also a great way to intensify orgasms. There are so many games on the market today that finding one that suits you and your partner should be an easy task. You could start with a pair of naughty dice or a sexy deck of cards. You can also make up your own games using chocolate sauce and glow in the dark body paints for starters. Get your creative juices flowing and go for it. It really doesn't matter which games you decide to play as long as you totally commit to having fun.
5. Set the Mood
Make a CD or a play list of your favorite love songs. Buy some of your favorite scented candles or incense and place them carefully around the bedroom or the entire house. Now I know this next suggestion is going to sound corny, but it's all in an effort to set a romantic mood. Sprinkle rose petals from the front door leaving a trail to the bedroom. Sprinkle some on the bed too. Run a hot bath and add some scented oils or bubbles, whatever turns you on. Besides feeling special, your lover will appreciate all of the time you put in to create an intimate atmosphere for lovemaking. In addition, the music, candles, and rose petals will stimulate at least three of your five senses and your partner's as well.
6. Get Your Hands Oily
Touching and being touched is a basic human need. The genitals are usually the body parts that receive the most attention in bed, but one of your most sensitive sex organs is your skin because it is packed with sensitive nerve receptors that respond to touch. You've already got the music and the candles going why not bring some of your favorite scented oils to the party. Massage not only feels good, but it's good for you. It increases circulation, releases endorphins, and reduces stress. You don't have to be a professional to give a great massage. Start out slowly and deliberately avoid the obvious body parts to allow the passion to build with each and every touch.
7. Pillow Talk
You will have better sex by adding a little dirty talk to your relationship. Our bodies automatically respond to spoken words especially when we hear our own names. Mastering the art of dirty talk isn't as hard as you might think. You can test the waters before you even get to the bedroom especially if you have already followed step number two. Based on your partner's text responses, you should have a pretty good idea of just how far you can go once you get to the bedroom. Verbalize what you're feeling and you are sure to excite your partner.
Get Started Today
These seven tips are a great way to have better sex with your partner. Take the time to implement them in your sex life and you will reap the benefits immediately and enjoy the effects for a lifetime. To keep the fire burning, don't stop with these seven tips, sign up for our free weekly lovemaking tips, you'll be happy that you did.
