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When faced with a problem or a dilemma our natural inclination is to look for information. If you've just lost your ex you're probably looking to purchase or check out books on relationships. There are thousands of titles all claiming to help you meet your need. How are you supposed to choose which one is best for you?
In this article, I'll give you the best method to choosing the best relationship books. The answer will most definitely surprise you. Keep reading
First of all, don't let the fancy letters after the author's name fool you. There is a difference between school or academic knowledge and real life knowledge. Many people stay in school for years and end up with a whole bunch of letters after their name. All that really says is that they've spent time in school and completed the academic requirements to receive the degrees. This does not in any way equal real experience.
Instead of getting drawn in by the letters behind the author's name you should look for an author who has been down in the trenches. These people either helped put another couple's relationship back together or went through the process of fixing their own broken pieces. These aren't people who worked with therapy patients, but relationships of people they actually cared about.
Next, you don't want to get books that tell you to set your relationship on a shelf for 30 days and work on yourself during that window of time. Most of these books give this same advice. The online ebooks take this concept and turn it into a 50 page pdf document and charge you money for it. These are not what you need. Don't waste your money on them.
What you should be looking for is a book that can give you new and relevant information. And not the kind of information you can get from your friends.
For example, will those books tell you exactly what women want and crave the most? Will it include a step by step guide for how to give her exactly what she's craving? Will these books walk you through the process of recovering from an affair? What about helping you with the specific techniques to use to get relief from your heartache?
Look at the people who are recommending the book. Are the testimonials genuine or generic? Are they written by notable, respectable people or just anybody the author could find?
You want to get a relationship book that a wide variety of people from various walks of life have recommended. If men and women, from near and far, who have been in long and short relationships have used it, chances are it will work great for you.
There are tons of relationship books on the market. Sadly, most of them were not written by people who have actually experienced the relationship issues they're writing about. As a result, the advice is generic and superficial and could really be surmised in one to two paragraphs.
Finding the best relationship books may take a little time and work. But isn't everything about relationships work? But it's worth it if you're going to invest your time and money into it, as well as, put your faith in what the author has to say.
The Magic Of Making Up is a step by step system that gives experiential advice. It is being used by men and women of varying ages in 7 countries. If it's working for them, it'll work for you, too. Don't let the authors of Relationship Books Make A Fool Of You any longer.
